Let Him Taste His OWN Medicine!πŸ‘ŒπŸ½



team Jackson what's happening y'all know yesterday I posted a video talking about how to make a man regret losing you you know as an alternative to try to take out revenge or something like that when I say revenge though I just want to clear this up when I say revenge I'm talking about like empty strictly emotional revenge eg don't you so you cheat back or he hurts your feelings are you burning up his car and those instances you probably gonna end up you know creating more damage and doing more harm than good but there is a way to let him taste its own medicine and it have a positive outcome as a matter of fact sometimes that's the only choice you got left like for business saying you go out to a restaurant and the waitress is hella flirty she's calling them pet names she's you know smile a little too hard all these damn keke keen and giggles she's touching this shoulder right there in front of you in ain't even an acknowledged you you shouldn't have to be the one to step in so you may let your husband know area man no the baby just makes me uncomfortable I don't like whenever you let these things just go on like I'm not even sitting right here in either directly or indirectly he tells you to get over it you know maybe he calls you insecure crazy you just trippin now you know it's just the waitress or he continues doing this so his actions are saying the exact same thing what's happening here is you're not speaking his language y'all know like the five love languages a pretty good read so I advise everybody go out and check it out I came up with the five discipline languages which I won't go too far in depth as preachers and shit like but steal my stuff but I will say this a lot of women speak their discipline language and then when the man don't get it they just leaves and sometimes he'll get the message if you speak his discipline language so you may have to give him a taste of his own medicine by next time you go out to a bar or maybe on an event let it guy buy you a drink let the guys get too damn close laugh at a guy's jokes even when it ain't even funny right there in front of your man and don't introduce them too well I shouldn't get pissed off and watch him receive the message of how this made you feel that's what he's gonna get it you know cuz you're speaking his language now it's like if your son goes to school and he's getting bullied by one of the students you gonna tell your son baby consult with the teacher if you have a problem tell the principal walk the other way you know take another round be the a person take the high road you can tell them all this stuff but guess what somebody's don't understand nothing but the same action that they take to communicate that they think there's shit so that's when you gotta teach us some self-defense so we can stand up to that bully and let the bully know that he's not the one to fuck with in the same instance that you're someone has to do that you may have to do that in your relationship to get a message across and the guys either going piss or you'll get off the pot he's gonna say alright baby I get what you're saying I feel exactly how you felt so now that I know better I'm gonna do better or if you don't know what a guy that would rather cut you off than to correct his fucked up actions then you know where you stand and you ain't gotta waste no more time with them you know there are some people who are saying oh you don't want to stoop to his level I would never stoop to the same love no it's about getting on the same page so that your message gets to cross effectively like if I'm talking to a group of kindergarteners or third graders I don't speak the same way use the same vocabulary make the same points that I make when I'm speaking to 30 or 40 year old adults it's not that I'm stooping down to their level is that I'm getting on the same page with them so they can receive my message it's the same thing with a man sometimes you got to let him taste his own medicine in order to cure him of his bullshit so if you're tactful if you're intentional if you're intelligent about it it's not revenge it's the effective communication so y'all let me know what you think in the comments of course if you like free stuff check out the caption a holiday child later peace

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  1. πŸ€”I think he received my message- I was on that same page today. Not stooping to his level. Just the same page. Okay I listened to everything you said. Unfortunately I was friends with a confused man. Flip flopping all over the place. So I watched this last night and let me tell you. I was not speaking his language. But today I spoke it. We had a meeting with our department and another department. I made sure I sat across from a nice looking man in my department and my β€œ so called male friend” sat at the end of the row and he could see me and the other guy. So I’m always classy but today I was real classy with it.Every time that guy from the other department told a joke I laughed because he was funny but I would look towards his way and smile. Granted the jokes were not that funny but I made sure he saw all my teeth 🦷 lol πŸ˜‚ I could see my so called male friend looking like what is so funny l lol πŸ˜‚. I was like man Derrick know what he talking about. I did it for the whole 1 hour and a half meeting. And I was talking to other people and keeping it sexy and classy. I’m not sure if he was upset. But I know he know okay. Also when we got back to my department I made sure to talk to another guy and tell him that his glasses were nice and I know my so called friend heard me. I also was talking and laughing and smiling all day with people. I’m not going to lie it felt good. Cause that’s what he do. So I will wrap this whatever me and him had and move on and take care of me. That way I be available for a healthy relationship. πŸ‘πŸ½βœŒπŸ½πŸ‘ŒπŸ½πŸ’―

  2. Hey Derrick you are so right… I'm smartening up after years of being controlled by an idiot who thinks it's all about him. I heard an old saying what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Thank you for sharing with us women the true thoughts that some men have towards women, when they're trying to manipulate & abuse them emotionally. I have much love & respect for you…❀

  3. I've been listening to you all day everything you say is real!!! To my queen you truly have to pick your battles AKA men keep your crown straight!!

  4. Very well put,some do need a taste of there own medicine…. Revenge only feels good for a few,but if you let it go and be the smarter one it hurts more…ty like you talkπŸ˜ŽπŸ–€πŸŒˆπŸ°πŸ˜πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜ŽπŸ–€πŸŒΉ

  5. Hohooo careful here! Playing with fire letting him taste his own medicin. Just move on, you are not a child in the nursery.

  6. These negative comments crack me up. Like us (women) play no games at all. Quit lyinnng lol. We ALL need a reality check at times.

  7. I SO AGREE WITH YOU…..!!!!!!!πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ•―πŸ•―πŸ•―πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

  8. Teaching β€œTit for Tat” is so childish especially when some men do it back to some women, so why do you promote this foolish behavior towards women?

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